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Found out last night that my brother in law died suddenly yesterday morning. No idea what caused it yet – apparently he said he was feeling tired, went for a lie down and just didn’t wake up.

He was only 41, and had always been fit and healthy. He was a really sound bloke, very quiet and decent as you like & worked all hours to provide for his family. Leaves my sister with my 14 year old nephew and 9 year old niece.

Guess it goes to show how frighteningly precarious life can be. I’m absolutely stunned.

Sorry to hear of your bad news mate ..
my regards to your family.
It makes you wonder though ..

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So sorry to hear your bad news Martin, Life is just not fair. So young to die. It is times like this you do wonder if there is a god Please send our thoughts and love to your sister Take care mate

that is so sad! my thoughts are with you and your family!
take care.x

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Kathryn x

Our condolences, Martin, to yourself and family

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Mal

So sorry to hear this sad news he was so young, such a shock for you all.

Our thoughts are with you and you're family at this time.

Jan and Grahamx

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My condolences to you & your family mate, your right, life is way to precarious

Martin

My condolences to you and your family. Such a young age, the only thing you can all comfort yourselves with, is that he didn't suffer.

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Jean

Retirement - harder work than working - But much more fun

Having lost my dad suddenly I know that you familys grief will be huge. The hardest part for me was people who I had known all my life crossing the street rather than speak to me as they didn't know what to say. The biggest comfort your family can give each other will be to talk about him. My thoughts go out to you and your family.

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Bev

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So sorry to hear your bad news Martin. My dad
was only 48yrs when he died it's a shock when
they are such a young age please accept our
condolences and deepest sympathy to your
sister.

Take Care
Carol, Andy and Taylor

Our thoughts are with you and your family. Such sad news.

Tigyy and Andrew

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Helen

Martin, so sorry to hear your bad news. My thoughts and prayers are with your sister and kids.

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Hi Martin.

So sorry to hear about your loss and for his wife and children too.


Jill.

What a stunner for you all Martin, our condolences are with you. Life is precious, its not till its gone we realise just how much, and how many thing we would like to have said but just never found the time for it.

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A terrible thing to happen to someone so young, very sad for you all.

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When someone dear departs this life, or is taken from us, it is difficult if not impossible to find anything positive in the situation.

It may be small consolation for those left behind to mourn, but your brother in law went peacefully, so hopefully the whole family may be able to draw comfort from this fact.

I echo all the above condolences and hope the family come to terms with such a sad and sudden loss.

Nosher

That's dreadful news and it could have happened to any one of us. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Our condolences to you and your sister and family. My Dad, although a lot older than your bother-in-law, went to see the GP one day and never came back. He had had a massive stroke and died in the surgery so I can realise the shock you must all be in. Take care.

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Lyn

Tough times dont last long but tough people do

Our deepest condolences to you and your family

Jackie and David

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Martin

So sorry to hear your extrememly sad news
Our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Shirley & nMike

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Martin

Like everyone else, sorry to hear your sad news mate.

All the best, Simon

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So sorry to hear about this, just terrible for all concerned.

Marilyn

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Martin that's dreadful news. Your sister and both families must be in a state of shock. Please accept our sincere condolences. Marj/Les

Please accept our sincerest condolences Martin. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Owen & Karen

Oh Martin. I am so very sorry to hear this dreadful news. All the family's thoughts are with you and yours.

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Tina
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Please accept our deepest sympathy Martin for you and the family at this sad time. In our thoughts.

Jan and Ian

What a terrible shock - he was so young. Makes us realise how precious life is. Our sincerest condolences.

Malcolm and Jackie

I'm sorry to read about your sad news. My thoughts are with you and his family at this tragic time.

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Jo. xx

So sorry to hear your dreadful news. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Janette and Dave

I echo what everyone has said, sincere condolonces

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What a shock it must be Martin. Very sad.
Gary

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Just read this Martin.Please accept our condolences

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So sorry to here your news it will be very hard for al of you. Please accept our condolances

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Take Care
Ann

What sad news Martin

Our thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time

Julie x

Thinking of you and your family Martin. What dreadful news.

Lesley

Our condolences to you and your family Martin.

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Sarah & Phil

Thanks everyone.

I did initially hesitate before starting this thread, but I’m glad I posted it now as reading all the messages of support really does help.

I guess it’s times like this when being so far detached from the rest of the family is the most difficult. Just waiting now to find out when the funeral is and have to hope I can get a suitable flight at short notice.

Martin

I know what you mean - it really helped me last year as well. When you know the details, if you pop into Top Kinisis, opposite Cosmic Bowling, as they have all the special offers of flights back to the UK. I'm sure they'll be able to help you.

My thoughts are with you and your family - I know how difficult it is being separated at a time like this.

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Jean

Retirement - harder work than working - But much more fun

Hi Martin
Just got back on computer this evening and read your thread.
My condolences go out to you and your Family and I do hope you manage to get back to the UK.
Sarah

Really sorry to hear of the news Martin. My thoughts are with you and the family.

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Martin, what dreadful news for you especially for a man so young, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your sisters family at this awful time - Tony & Tina

Hi Martin

Sincere condolences and our very warm thoughts are with you at this sad time. Big hugs to you all

OH Martin thats awful news im so sorry for you all.God love your sister and their children
Alex

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Hi Martin,

Have only just logged on and seen your dreadful news.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

Sue, Richard and Joyce.

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Sue.

A Dog is for Life not Just for Cyprus.
(I wish more people would remember this)

Thanks again for all the good wishes.

Post mortem results showed the cause was a heart defect - I'm not sure the proper medical terminology, but apparently something to do with a valve closing when it shouldn't have. Unfortunately it seems it can also be hereditary, so now the kids are having to have tests too.

Funeral is a week tomorrow, so I should be OK to get over for a few days - off hunting flights just now...

Funerals are horrible things; I've been to far too many.

Hope all goes well and tests on the rest of the family all prove OK.

Nosher

I to hope all goes well with the family on the tests results.

Our thought are still with you.

Jan

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Martin and Yvonne,
So sorry to hear your news. Our thoughts are with you and all your families.
My b-i-l was killed in a car crash at age 24 in Canada, when his son was only 6 months old. Awful time for all our family but we all supported each other as I know you will do. Have a safe journey over.

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Ruth x

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So sorry to read your news. I know how you must be feeling. Sincere condolences. Pat